Dating in a Modern World
Dating in a Modern World
by oliver green
Several years ago single men and women could count on meeting potential mates though work or mutual friends. But that was then and the dating environment has changed. Today, single men and women are busier than ever and they work longer hours, which means it's harder to meet Mr. or Ms. Right! But not to worry, the stigma of dating services and personal ads is basically prehistoric and there are plenty of options to help single people become couples. Today, online dating, speed dating, Lock N Key parties, "It's Just Lunch" and "Eight at Eight" are some of the most popular options to help singles navigate dating in a modern world.
Online Dating
Let's face it we use the Internet for shopping, travel and work. Why not use the Internet for dating as well? Many online dating services provide potential matches based on religion, ethnic background, occupation and special interests. Jdate.com is a popular dating site for Jewish singles while Blackplanet.com is a popular online community and dating service for African American singles. Moreover, Lawyersinlove.com users are generally law students or lawyers while Mustlovepets.com caters to singles who love animals.
Online dating is convenient, inexpensive and the only requirements are hope, luck and Internet connection! Online dating provides one fairly easy way to navigate a busy professional life and maintain a personal life. But be forewarned there is some work involved in identifying a perfect match online. Single hopefuls must peruse countless member profiles; make numerous cyber introductions and wait to see if interest is mutual.
Speed Dating
Unlike the later, speed dating allows singles to meet several potential matches even as much as twenty prospects in one night! Singles pay a small fee to participate in several mini dates at a local bar or nightclub. The mini dates last about ten minutes and allow participants just enough time to do quick intros and catch someone's attention. By the end of the evening participants submit a list of people they'd like to see again. Event organizers then identify mutual matches and provide contact information to both parties. Singles interested in instant dating gratification can try Hurrydate.com a well known speed dating service that should help jump start a stalled social calendar!
Lock N Key
Alternatively, Lock N Key parties are a combination of happy hour and the initial icebreaker conversation. Generally female participants are provided with locks and male participants are issued keys. Lock N Key attendees circulate and mingle under the guise of attempting to find appropriate locks or keys. Lock N Key parties generally offer complimentary drinks, door prizes and giveaways. If a match occurs too early in the evening participants can simply return their key or lock and start the process over. Since there is generally a one in ten chance of unlocking a lock there's plenty of opportunities to meet several potential mates! "Moxie in the City" hosts Lock N Key Parties in several major cities.
It's Just Lunch
If the aforementioned dating options seem a bit too unconventional "It's Just Lunch" may be more suitable. Each member is assigned an "IJL" dating specialist and participates in a one on one interview. The interview allows the member to clearly communicate physical, ethnic, religious, education and social preferences. Once the interview is completed the dating specialist does all the leg work. They identify potential matches and schedule a lunch, brunch or happy hour date. These dates tend to be shorter in length and occur in a casual environment. This service is highly customized and touts a 70% second date success rate. However, membership fees tend to be costly. But if cost is not a concern "It's Just Lunch" may be worth trying.
Eight at Eight
Finally, "Eight at Eight" is equal parts dinner club and dating service. "Eight at Eight" representatives organize a dinner party at a local hotspot that includes four single men and four single women with similar backgrounds and interests. This service is a great opportunity to meet new people in a casual environment while forgoing the stress and expense of a one on one first date. Chances are if attendees aren't perfect matches at least they've had a good meal and made new friends.
Ultimately, singles can try one or all of these dating services. In today's modern world there's no reason for men and women to sit at home on a Friday night unless they've already successfully met their perfect match.
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by oliver green
Several years ago single men and women could count on meeting potential mates though work or mutual friends. But that was then and the dating environment has changed. Today, single men and women are busier than ever and they work longer hours, which means it's harder to meet Mr. or Ms. Right! But not to worry, the stigma of dating services and personal ads is basically prehistoric and there are plenty of options to help single people become couples. Today, online dating, speed dating, Lock N Key parties, "It's Just Lunch" and "Eight at Eight" are some of the most popular options to help singles navigate dating in a modern world.
Online Dating
Let's face it we use the Internet for shopping, travel and work. Why not use the Internet for dating as well? Many online dating services provide potential matches based on religion, ethnic background, occupation and special interests. Jdate.com is a popular dating site for Jewish singles while Blackplanet.com is a popular online community and dating service for African American singles. Moreover, Lawyersinlove.com users are generally law students or lawyers while Mustlovepets.com caters to singles who love animals.
Online dating is convenient, inexpensive and the only requirements are hope, luck and Internet connection! Online dating provides one fairly easy way to navigate a busy professional life and maintain a personal life. But be forewarned there is some work involved in identifying a perfect match online. Single hopefuls must peruse countless member profiles; make numerous cyber introductions and wait to see if interest is mutual.
Speed Dating
Unlike the later, speed dating allows singles to meet several potential matches even as much as twenty prospects in one night! Singles pay a small fee to participate in several mini dates at a local bar or nightclub. The mini dates last about ten minutes and allow participants just enough time to do quick intros and catch someone's attention. By the end of the evening participants submit a list of people they'd like to see again. Event organizers then identify mutual matches and provide contact information to both parties. Singles interested in instant dating gratification can try Hurrydate.com a well known speed dating service that should help jump start a stalled social calendar!
Lock N Key
Alternatively, Lock N Key parties are a combination of happy hour and the initial icebreaker conversation. Generally female participants are provided with locks and male participants are issued keys. Lock N Key attendees circulate and mingle under the guise of attempting to find appropriate locks or keys. Lock N Key parties generally offer complimentary drinks, door prizes and giveaways. If a match occurs too early in the evening participants can simply return their key or lock and start the process over. Since there is generally a one in ten chance of unlocking a lock there's plenty of opportunities to meet several potential mates! "Moxie in the City" hosts Lock N Key Parties in several major cities.
It's Just Lunch
If the aforementioned dating options seem a bit too unconventional "It's Just Lunch" may be more suitable. Each member is assigned an "IJL" dating specialist and participates in a one on one interview. The interview allows the member to clearly communicate physical, ethnic, religious, education and social preferences. Once the interview is completed the dating specialist does all the leg work. They identify potential matches and schedule a lunch, brunch or happy hour date. These dates tend to be shorter in length and occur in a casual environment. This service is highly customized and touts a 70% second date success rate. However, membership fees tend to be costly. But if cost is not a concern "It's Just Lunch" may be worth trying.
Eight at Eight
Finally, "Eight at Eight" is equal parts dinner club and dating service. "Eight at Eight" representatives organize a dinner party at a local hotspot that includes four single men and four single women with similar backgrounds and interests. This service is a great opportunity to meet new people in a casual environment while forgoing the stress and expense of a one on one first date. Chances are if attendees aren't perfect matches at least they've had a good meal and made new friends.
Ultimately, singles can try one or all of these dating services. In today's modern world there's no reason for men and women to sit at home on a Friday night unless they've already successfully met their perfect match.
PhatGuru.com Inc. Queen of Cool PhatPeople@phatguru.com
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