Wednesday, January 10, 2007

Advice Dating Online

Advice Dating Online
by Sophia Brossard


For those that came for the instant download for advice dating online please go the download page 12 Simple Rules.
Everybody else please read the article below.
Online dating is more popular today then ever before. The net has become the singles bar of the 21st century. More and more people are using the net to find friendship, romance and future sexual partners.
If you are serious about dating online you should take a realistic approach to it. You should think of it as a process with certain defined goals set ahead of time. Your goal should be to meet your online contacts in person and precautions need to be taken.
It's no different than dating off line. If you barely know somebody you wouldn't give them your phone number or address after a 2 minute conversation. Only after you knew something about them and felt they could be trusted would you do such a thing.
The same rule applies with online dating. That's what chat rooms and e-mail is for. Get to know these contacts by asking personal questions. See if you have something in common. After you feel safe with them and you want to meet them agree to meet them at a public place.
A great place to meet with an online dating contact is at a coffee shop. There is very little pressure on both of you to impress each other. And having coffee or tea at a coffee shop allows you to talk openly and see if the chemistry is right. If the chemistry isn't there you can just walk away. If the chemistry is right then it is time to exchange phone numbers.
Meeting your online contact is both exciting and nerve racking and can also be disappointing. Even if you do exchange pictures and the conversations you have had online have seemed exciting the actual meeting of somebody new can be a disappointment. Sometimes the chemistry online is completely different offline.
By the same token the first meeting can be all you dreamed about. You have already had intimate conversation and gotten to know your online date before actually meeting. Most of the awkwardness is gone. Many people have fallen in love and married through contacting each other online.
In today's world finding friendship, love, romance and marriage can be as easy as typing.
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